Day Twenty-Eight of 365 – Call It What It Is

I become increasingly discouraged when I look around me. Spin doctors work all the time creating mirages around realities to the extent that facts become a sort of comfortable fiction. As long as we have people bent on distorting events toward their own personal biases in order to gain power or control, we run the risk of losing our direction. As long as we have people bent on accepting the distortions pushed on them without taking the time to evaluate and think, we run the risk of being led down paths of destruction.

Let us exhibit the courage to Call It What It Is – whatever it is! Examples? I can do that. We must call a lie, a lie. We must call deceit, deceit. We must call tyranny, tyranny. We must call bigotry, bigotry. We must call, prejudice, prejudice. We must call self-absorption, self-absorption. We must call greed, greed. You get the point.

In my way of thinking, when we venture to color something destructive anything other than what it is, we deceive ourselves into not only believing a lie, but living a lie.

Spinning is best left to a fitness class at the gym. Spinning is best suited for the wind turbine. Spinning holds no place in governance or religion or education or personal living. Spinning emerges from a desire always be right or come out of a bad situation “smelling like a rose.” Spinning keeps us from growing and maturing as human beings. When we have the courage to “Call It What It Is,” we actually give ourselves opportunities to learn and create solid character.

Peace!

Mark E. Hundley

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Mark E Hundley M.Ed.,LPC-S

I have been a Licensed Professional Counselor since 1994 and a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor since 2011. I received my BA in Sociology and Psychology from Hardin-Simmons University and my Master’s in Counseling from the University of North Texas.

I specialize in the field of loss/grief and have written, trained, and presented workshops on loss/grief since 1990. Helping clients learn to work toward reconciliation and integration of life losses is the basis of my work in this area.

My wife and I are both therapists and often work together with couples in our practice. We find that couples respond well to our co-therapist approach.

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