Day Two Hundred Fifty-Two of 365 – The Cowboy Code of Ethics: Drawing the Line!

In broad terms, Drawing the Line refers to boundaries, limits and distinctions. We use the phrase to talk about the differences between the tolerable and the intolerable; the acceptable and the unacceptable; the good and the bad; the right and the wrong; the wise and the unwise. Drawing the line requires that we make decisions based on values and beliefs which then requires us to be fully aware of those values and beliefs.

Since Drawing the Line requires a significant degree of self-awareness, knowing where the draw the line is often difficult. Why? Because not all of us are as self-aware as we need to be.

Many times we draw lines that are incorrectly placed or vaguely defined. Sometimes we even fail to draw ANY line at all. But perhaps the worst is when we allow others to draw lines for us. When that happens we give our power of self-determination over to people who may not share our values or have our best interest at heart.

The Cowboy Code of Ethics says, “Know where to draw the line.” As with every other aspect of this Code, the wisdom contained herein demands consideration.

Simply put, people who possess a high degree of self-awareness have the ability to “Know where to draw the line.”  We need more people who understand boundaries and decency. We need more people with the courage to live their convictions, especially when those convictions promote good for great numbers of people. We need more people to stand firm.

Draw the lines. Stand for the good. Defend those who can’t defend themselves. Make a difference. Know where to draw the line and then DRAW it!

Peace!

Mark E. Hundley

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Mark E Hundley M.Ed.,LPC-S

I have been a Licensed Professional Counselor since 1994 and a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor since 2011. I received my BA in Sociology and Psychology from Hardin-Simmons University and my Master’s in Counseling from the University of North Texas.

I specialize in the field of loss/grief and have written, trained, and presented workshops on loss/grief since 1990. Helping clients learn to work toward reconciliation and integration of life losses is the basis of my work in this area.

My wife and I are both therapists and often work together with couples in our practice. We find that couples respond well to our co-therapist approach.

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